THESE ARE THE FIRST FEW WORDS OF NE-YO SONG "STAY WITH YOUR MAN". WHEN I HEARD THIS SONG I WAS IN TEARS BECAUSE I FOUND MYSELF IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS BEFORE. I DON'T WANT TO BE JUDGE BY ANYONE,BUT I DO WANT TO SHARE WITH YOU WHAT HAPPENED TO ME. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 12 YEARS, AND I CAN'T SAY ALL OF THOSE YEARS WERE HAPPY ONES. I DO LOVE MY HUSBAND, BUT HE NEVER KNEW THAT I WAS ABOUT TO LEAVE HIM. I WAS FOOLISH TO THINK THAT ALL MARRIAGES WERE PERFECT. I DIDN'T REALIZE THAT TO HAVE A GOOD MARRIAGE YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT. YOU HAVE TO FIND A WAY MAKE IT RIGHT, AND YOU HAVE TO FIGHT FOR THE ONE YOU LOVED. LOW AND BEHOLD, THREE YEARS INTO MY MARRIAGE, I ALMOST LET ANOTHER MAN SWEET TALK ME INTO LEAVING MY HUSBAND FOR GOOD. LUSTING FOR SOMEONE IS NOTHING LIKE LOVING SOMEONE, AND WHEN IT FINALLY HIT ME ON THE HEAD, I WAS TAKING ONE FOOT OUT OF THE DOOR. I TURNED AROUND AND LOOKED AT MY HUSBAND, AND I KNEW THERE WAS NO WAY IN HELL I COULD LIVE WITHOUT HIM. LISTEN TO THE SONG. IT WOULD BRING TEARS TO YOUR EYES.