What I learned this month... ...

I can scream, shout and act a fool like nobody's business, in other words give a new meaning to the term Witch with a catipal B... and still people will defend me.

I can act like I said and somebody is going to set me straight...in other words I'm am never too old to a "butt-whoopin'"

I am in the position to help, so that's what I will do.

Twinkies suck!!!

Twinkies are alright.

Mom and Granny know everything worth knowing and then some.

Lesson Learned Nov. 4th:
Stay out of agressive topics because it's just not worth the drama.

Lesson Learned: Nov. 11th/ 12th

Stay out of aggressive topic because it is not worth the drama, I should've gotten a real understanding of this first before I posted it. I now have that understanding and will remember that lesson.
Other lesson learned:
Speak my mind and stand by it. You have to say what you mean and mean what you say with every fiber in your being and then some. You can't not let people scare you away or make you feel bad about what you believe when you know what's real with you.


Lesson Learned, Nov. 12th
Take a break sometimes. I don't have to carry everything by myself. My life is no longer just about me and what I want. Now it's we and what we want. I had the concept before, but didn't get the understanding until today.

* Be a friend to everyone... even people, you thought you didn't like.

* Just because I disagree with your opinion does not mean I don't like you or even that I don't respect you.

* It is my right to be who I am and love it, just as it is your right.

* I am a grown woman and although I may act childish sometimes, it is still a fact that I am grown.

* People are going to talk about me no matter what I do.

* (I learned this lesson when I was in high school, but I just keep getting reminded of it.) I have to please me in order to be happy with me.

* One event can change everything you ever thought about a person.

* Your dreams are not always fiction.

Its okay to dream, but I have to stay focused.

I need to get right with my family as a whole. My future is loking different and I'm afraid that if I don't bring them along that my future will not be apart of them...my lesson learned is that it is okay to let go of old hurts because even the unseen wounds need to heal.