a couple of the threads on sexuality got me thinking about the word "freak". what does that mean to you? is it always a negative phrase? what is a freak?
Hmm. I tend to put S&M people in that category, I don't get why anyone would want to whip or be whipped. Or offer to be anyone's bitch, which has to be the strangest thing anyone ever offered me. Other than that...
Now I'm exiting this topic. I look forward to seeing other posts
quote:Originally posted by yaunah: i use it most often to describe someone who is "out" sexually, as in Super (incense, wine and candles)
or as an action as in i would like to get freaky with justin on american idol.
but exactly what does it mean to be freaky? just "into" sex? wanting to have sex frequently? or does it imply behavior that is somehow out of the norm?
a freak: someone who is comfortable enough with their own sexuality to try things that are beyond the norm. someone who likes sexually deviant activities. someone who is willing to try almost anything.
there can be levels of freaks, and i believe EVERYONE has a little "freakiness" in them, it just may not have been discovered yet.
super freak freaky freak straight freak freaky tendancies
My ex boyfriend once asked me if I would cut my wrist and he cut his so we could suck each other's blood while "in the act!"-Now that is turely a freak to me in every meaning of the word!
------------------------------ The Lord is on my side;I will not fear:what can man do unto me? (Psalms 118:6)
My ex boyfriend once asked me if I would cut my wrist and he cut his so we could suck each other's blood while "in the act
OK - I can't let this just stand here. If I heard something like that, I don't care how "intimate" a moment it was, I'd be outta there like I had seen a ghost or something!!! Call me sheltered, but how do you even think up something like that???
Do you think he was just playing with you/messing with your mind? Otherwise was he a pretty "normal" guy?
NO he wasn't just messing with my mind, he was dead serious. It was a fantasy of his and I was his girlfriend so he figured I would do it! He did it with a couple of his friends before I was in the picture. NO he wasn't actually a "normal" person-he tried to kill his self once before I knew him, once when we were togeather, and once when I finally broke up with him!He was a total nut case!
------------------------------ The Lord is on my side;I will not fear:what can man do unto me? (Psalms 118:6)
That blood drinking thing is just too far out there for me. Some kind of Vampire, Angeline(or however she says her name)/Billy Bob Thornton kind a thing.
If somebody ever said that to me, I'd'a been like, "Oops, u know, I JUST remembered! I'm late for my Mexican Hat Dance class!! Bye!"
Oh, that is crazy! I like Nykkii's definition better. A freak is somebody uninhibited enough to allow themselves to enjoy the Communal Movements to the utmost.
IMO - a "freak" is someone that pushes the envelope sexually. Who is comfortable enough with who they are to pursue sexual experiences however and wherever and with whomever that can deliver.
I guess there are levels to it, but the beginning (stage 1) would have to be for a girl, one who is uninhibited enough to be the aggressor and is aimed at pleasing him.
The aggressor is the natural state for a guy, so when he is called a freak, its because of the *freaky shyt* he is doing or asking for.
I've been called that, but I wasn't doing any real *freaky shyt*. It was a state of mind.
But since everyone has there own opinion, one person's freak is another person's boring lover.
Call me sheltered, but how do you even think up something like that???
