I started this post off something Nykkii asked sometime ago, that got no response. So I figured I'd give it another go. "men what are some of the things women in your past (or present)have done to-- or actually end your relationship??" Well for me, I was once told by a teacher of mine that "a man always puts his lady on a pedistal higher than himself, this is the sign of a good man and a woman always puts her man on a pedistal higher than herself and this is the sign of a good woman so together you have a fully functional relationship, in which both parties are always putting each other above themselves." So for me, the #1 deal breaker in a relationship is when I put someones needs ahead of mine... and they put their needs ahead of mine, then then what you have is two people coming together for the betterment of one, sort of a "whats yours is mine whats mine is mine" mentality. Deal breaker #2 anger displacement,if a sista might have unresolved with some dude fine, but I get insulted personally when it's projected onto me. I'm not her pops, her first boyfriend, her last boyfriend, that cat who felt her butt back in middle school,or the dude who picked "that big booty hefa" over her in high school,I'm just a guy who likes her hopin' she like me too, and can bring some happiness into each others life. plus it shows though physically with me, her hart and mind are in past relationships, and/or that she does'nt see me as a individual but as part of a whole.
for me, it's when she starts having male friends outside of the friendship cirlce that i can never meet. I seems weird how women do this, but as soon as an old female classmate calls you, she is all over that convo for days/weeks. I guess women many woman have a 'fairness' problem..oh well..that's when i punt that relationship away
quote:Originally posted by RadioRaheem: for me, it's when she starts having male friends outside of the friendship cirlce that i can never meet. I seems weird how women do this, but as soon as an old female classmate calls you, she is all over that convo for days/weeks. I guess women many woman have a 'fairness' problem..oh well..that's when i punt that relationship away
quote:Originally posted by RadioRaheem: for me, it's when she starts having male friends outside of the friendship cirlce that i can never meet. I seems weird how women do this, but as soon as an old female classmate calls you, she is all over that convo for days/weeks. I guess women many woman have a 'fairness' problem..oh well..that's when i punt that relationship away
Who in the hell left the gate open??? Somebody put roots on me
G.O.M.A.B., H.O.B.O., M.O.B., and B.B.H. Rules of life!!!
Damn RR, she actually said you could 'nt meet her guy friends?!! Man, that's a new one to me, did she ever say why?
she never said why. I guess they were her ex's or something. I couldn't understand it, so i punted. I've learned that all problems don't have solutions and that all issues need not be dealt with. That's one to grow on
