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A1 |
I can be pretty shallow. My shallowness fluctuates from time to time. Just the other day I was watching a video(trust me I seldom do), and I noticed how ALL the girls were bangin'... then I thought to myself... "self, you need one of them!"... Am I the only one here that gets attacked by the shallow bug? I posted a song by Gucci Mane and Mac Bre-z(female) to sort of drive the sentiment home...
THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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I have a question....
I have been reading the board, and it seems that some women have issues with certain pics, of women being displayed. I dont have an issue with any of these pics.........because to me, its eye candy. But i think the concern or the behavior comes to light, with 'real life' situations. Do you think, a lot of men (like yourself), view women/life the same way. You actually go out and look for these type of women (video), to have in your lives? ....And when this doesnt happen, you complain? Im wondering if a lot of men, are like this.....but not realizing it. ```````````````````````` "Dipped in chocolate, bronzed with elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. "My Lord, she is a Black woman!" -Yosef Ben-Jochannan |
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Yes
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All men have shallow 'tendencies'. Some have had enough 'display trophy' relationships, 'this woman look good as all get out, but she stupid' relationships, and 'damn she fine, but, damn she get on my nerves' relationships, to know better than to act on those tendencies. THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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A1 |
qty226,
What do you think about the song? Do you force yourself not to bob your head or dance to it? THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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B2 |
I dont like to get 'crunk'.
 Actually im really not into that whole 'durty south' flow. So its something i dont listen to. ```````````````````````` "Dipped in chocolate, bronzed with elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. "My Lord, she is a Black woman!" -Yosef Ben-Jochannan |
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 THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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The Watcher |
Heru and I are in different places on this one. I never chose a woman to date based on getting props from the fellas or trophy status. It was always personal preference & experimentation. While all Black women, I've dated all sizes, complexions, heights, educated, thugs, natural hair, permed hair, airheads, intellectuals - you get the idea. P.S. I like "Lean Wit It, Rock Wit It" - it's kinda catchy. Loop that with "Can't Stop, Won't Stop" by Young Gunz and I'm  Sorry for the  ------------------------------ R.I.F. (Reading IS Fundamental)... "There are five dangerous faults which may affect a general: (1) Recklessness, which leads to destruction; (2) cowardice, which leads to capture; (3) a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults; (4) a delicacy of honor which is sensitive to shame; (5) over-solicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble." -Sun Tzu |
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B2 |
My 13 year old brother likes it......but now that im getting older, my taste in music has changed.Now back to the topic......!!  ```````````````````````` "Dipped in chocolate, bronzed with elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. "My Lord, she is a Black woman!" -Yosef Ben-Jochannan |
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A1 |
Cmon ddub,
You mean to tell me, not one single time in your life, you haven't been pursued by a hot chic that under normal circumstances wouldn't stand a chance, but you gave her a chance anyway BECAUSE she's hot so why not. THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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A1 |
I was in da club last week, and a dude pulled off his shoe, when the verse said... 'check my feet yeaint got deeze'... it was a trip. My peoples... my peoples THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by ddouble:
Heru and I are in different places on this one. I never chose a woman to date based on getting props from the fellas or trophy status. It was always personal preference & experimentation. While all Black women, I've dated all sizes, complexions, heights, educated, thugs, natural hair, permed hair, airheads, intellectuals - you get the idea. [QUOTE] I'm with ya on everything but the thugs and airheads...I can't stand those chicks!  "Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do."----Bruce Lee "The Tao of Jeet Kune Do" |
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The Watcher |
Seriously - it's never happened. I saw too many of my friends struggle with drama (other guys, kicking out lots of cash, etc.) dealing with incompatible eye candy. If I sensed that I was dealing with someone like that, I'd 86 the relationship quickly.
------------------------------ R.I.F. (Reading IS Fundamental)... "There are five dangerous faults which may affect a general: (1) Recklessness, which leads to destruction; (2) cowardice, which leads to capture; (3) a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults; (4) a delicacy of honor which is sensitive to shame; (5) over-solicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble." -Sun Tzu |
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The Watcher |
 ------------------------------ R.I.F. (Reading IS Fundamental)... "There are five dangerous faults which may affect a general: (1) Recklessness, which leads to destruction; (2) cowardice, which leads to capture; (3) a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults; (4) a delicacy of honor which is sensitive to shame; (5) over-solicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble." -Sun Tzu |
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B2 |
Ok, ok.....the only reason why i think about that song, is because of the dance that goes with it!!  Ok.....now back to the topic. I just think, those men that 'look' for these type of women, will be disappointed at some point. ```````````````````````` "Dipped in chocolate, bronzed with elegance, enameled with grace, toasted with beauty. "My Lord, she is a Black woman!" -Yosef Ben-Jochannan |
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The Watcher |
I was just figuring out what I liked & could accept in a relationship. P.S. Sorry qty226 for the off topic. Don't worry, there's plenty of Miles Davis mixed in too! ------------------------------ R.I.F. (Reading IS Fundamental)... "There are five dangerous faults which may affect a general: (1) Recklessness, which leads to destruction; (2) cowardice, which leads to capture; (3) a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults; (4) a delicacy of honor which is sensitive to shame; (5) over-solicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble." -Sun Tzu |
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A1 |
I have to say that I have only pursued one woman based solely on her being fine and her fly-girl image [that gives away my age, huh?]
The relationship lasted less than a week. I discovered that I needed much more than an image. |
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A1 |
Well then,
So the question is, has every man here(at this forum) outgrown shallowness? If so, to what extent, I mean have you outgrown it so far that you'll just settle for any woman with a 'nice' attitude, and is seemingly compatible? THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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