Is it the thrill of the chase? Or the capture?

the chase, having THAT woman in your life get a little boring after awhile, IMHO

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Originally posted by RadioRaheem:
the chase, having THAT woman in your life get a little boring after awhile, IMHO

Not boring at all! Now, if we only had some time together...

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The chase, to me, is boring. How many different ways can you wine and dine someone??? Now, after the capture, thats when you can break out with the IMAGINATION

It's both!! Especially, when what you have been chasing is all that you thought it was!!

Nowadays the chase doesnt even seem too exciting. I dont know maybe im going through a phase .

Definately the chase!

Men are excellent in scaling a fortress' walls but women are the masters of retreat!

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Originally posted by zodo:
Men are excellent in scaling a fortress' walls but women are the masters of retreat!

Retreat? Or, Strategic re-deployment?

The chase... and the capture combined.

It seems as if humans like both.

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Originally posted by ronin10:
The chase... and the capture combined.

Umm.... I have no idea why ...

but I like that answer....

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Originally posted by Kweli4Real:
Is it the thrill of the chase? Or the capture?

How come you didn't answer your own question, sir?

Okay ... Okay.

I'd have to say that when I was younger [until about the age of 30], it was definitely the thrill of the chase, once the chase was over, I'd lose interest and be off on the next chase.

From 30 to about 40, it was about the capture. I was ready to settle down and was seeking stability and permanence.

Now that I'm older, more settled and wiser, I find that it's not [or shouldn't be] about a "capture", because that says that one had to go out a get someone; rather than, just being together and having something between them grow.

There is no thrill and the capture, if possible, is not even all that satisfiying. heheheehehehehe

Guess who's back? *for a little bit at least*

Hey ... look who's back!!

Howya doin', sweetie?? I see you didn't get bit by the love bug while you were gone!

Fuck the chase and the capture. Many of y'all women are just going to have to come correct. The chase used to be fun back in college because a chick couldn't lie and say she was too busy. If she did, then you knew she was lying, so 99% of the time it was all good.

Nowadays, in my mid-thirties, the chase is bullshit. It's like having to wait for a crackhead to go through rehab with many of these women. You have to wade through all the sad stories about the ex-boyfriend(s), the hang-ups, insecurities, phoniness, and mental and health issues a typical woman will have and that's just in the first two dates. Sometimes the capture is even worse than the chase. When you finally are on the terms of trying to develop a monogamous relationship is when all the real issues come out and women will purposefully try to get on your last mother-fucking nerve just to see how far they can push you.

In all seriousness, I'm contemplating just being a damn player. This gentleman shit is for the birds. Too many fool ass women don't appreciate a brother that can bring something to the table. Fuck em' and flee em'. No I'm not angry or in a bad mood I'm just telling you'll the raw ass, real world truth of what a good man goes through.

A WORD TO THE WISE: WOMEN STOP TRYING TO HAVE INDEPTH CONVERSATIONS WITH A MAN ABOUT YOUR FUCKING PERIOD. DON'T NOBODY WANT TO HEAR THAT SHIT. WE DON'T TELL YOU IF OUR BALLS ITCH DO WE? NO!! SO STOP DOING THAT SHIT!!!!

Hey Romulus ...

Did it ever occur to you that maybe the women who are running from you aren't trying to get caught??

I hope you don't kiss your Momma with that nasty mouth of yours.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:
Fuck the chase and the capture. Many of y'all women are just going to have to come correct. The chase used to be fun back in college because a chick couldn't lie and say she was too busy. If she did, then you knew she was lying, so 99% of the time it was all good.

Nowadays, in my mid-thirties, the chase is bullshit. It's like having to wait for a crackhead to go through rehab with many of these women. You have to wade through all the sad stories about the ex-boyfriend(s), the hang-ups, insecurities, phoniness, and mental and health issues a typical woman will have and that's just in the first two dates. Sometimes the capture is even worse than the chase. When you finally are on the terms of trying to develop a monogamous relationship is when all the real issues come out and women will purposefully try to get on your last mother-fucking nerve just to see how far they can push you.

In all seriousness, I'm contemplating just being a damn player. This gentleman shit is for the birds. Too many fool ass women don't appreciate a brother that can bring something to the table. Fuck em' and flee em'. No I'm not angry or in a bad mood I'm just telling you'll the raw ass, real world truth of what a good man goes through.

Maybe it's you?

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