Hell yeah!

How much, in the course of flinging woo, will you bullshit? None at all? A lil bit? You only fling woo in hip boots?

I know that none of the brothers here would ever resort to any type of dishonesty to impress a woman, that is just crazy talk (as well I am sure all the women are too smart to be lied to).

Do you seek the favor of women you find attactive? What about an attractive woman in passing? Or one that you have no intentions on?

What about women you do not find attractive? Do you feel it is nice just to get admiration even if it is unrequited?

Have you ever had an unfavorable impression of a woman, only to have it change and it make her more attractive to you?

I don't bullshit.

I don't have to.

I'd say I probably ply about the same amount of charm to all women whether I'm attracted or not. I just enjoy women.

And yes. I have had an unfavorable impression of a woman turn around.

How is it that you don't have to? You make it sound like some kind of crutch. It is not. It is what it is. Are you able to bullshit a woman? If so, how do you know?

Come think of it, saying you don't bullshit women cause you don't have to, really sounds like bullshit to me (in I got 99 Problems kinda way.

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Originally posted by Wiz:
Come think of it, saying you don't bullshit women cause you don't have to, really sounds like bullshit to me

Maybe that's because you're a bullshitter.

This is not to say that I always have a woman.

But when I determine that I want one in particular, I usually get what I want.

And without bullshit.

Before you go there, finding a woman physically attractive is not enough for me to "want her".

Just so that we're on the same page:

Define bullshit.

What I find unattractive:

Lack of confidence
Physically unappealing
The inability to 'loosen up'

Moi? A bullshitter?

I would consider bullshitting as anything that you say or do that would cause you to appear unnaturally favorable to her.

See it is not always done by lying (I guess being such a bullshitter may know something about it). I mean if she likes big muscles and you have big muscles you would not be lying to show her you have big muscles, but you may have to bullshit her a lil bit to get her to see your muscles. Or if you know she likes honesty and you honestly declare how very honest you are, you is bullshitting her.

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Before you go there, finding a woman physically attractive is not enough for me to "want her".

I ain't say nothing about physically attractive.

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Originally posted by urbansun:
What I find unattractive:

Lack of confidence
Physically unappealing
The inability to 'loosen up'

But will you bullshit them?

LOL...

If I was single of course.

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Originally posted by Wiz:
Moi? A bullshitter?

I would consider bullshitting as anything that you say or do that would cause you to appear unnaturally favorable to her.

See it is not always done by lying (I guess being such a bullshitter may know something about it). I mean if she likes big muscles and you have big muscles you would not be lying to show her you have big muscles, but you may have to bullshit her a lil bit to get her to see your muscles. Or if you know she likes honesty and you honestly declare how very honest you are, you is bullshitting her.

I really don't see the connection between the thread title and the question you seem to be asking.

But now that you mention it, I probably do that on at least a subconscious level.

I communicate for a living. I communicate mathematics too. In most social situations, I've found that telling someone (ANYONE - male or female) that you're a mathematician is like telling them you work for the IRS.

I've had to compensate by being able to project parts of myself that people can relate to. I change up for the audience. It helps that I'm fairly versatile anyway. I can talk about casserole recipes with elderly women. It also helps to be a good listener, very attentive, and good at improvisation.

But lecturing for a living gets you to the point where that's almost second nature.

I could be naive and say that I'm always myself.

But that isn't quite true.

You're always a self for someone else.

It's mostly true though.

But in the end, apart from physical attractiveness, the women I find most attractive tend to be the ones with which I feel most comfortable truly being myself.

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I'M AN ELITIST TOO.

And in my other life I'm a photographer.

That people feel comfortable in your presence is a quintessential skill for photographers to have.

A woman has to be at least cute to me, if she is not, I used to get abusive of her affections (I say used to because I ain't done nothing lately). It would be nice if she had other shit going for her, but she has to have at least that much.

I guess this thread is just about some shit I am on. At my cottonfield, there are these two really cute young ladies and guys tend to trip over themselves to get near them and then again when they are near them it is kinda funny to watch, but I have to admit, I like to get mine in too, even though if either of them got anywhere near me I would run like hell. And since I am old, I had to figure other ways to get away from an occasional admirer, however rare they are.

I have to admit, I have always bullshitted women (I think I got that from my grandfather). But I do try to keep that balance of inertia and attaction, so they stay a correct distance away from me and not mess up my orbit'n.

~Wiz, you crax me up sometimes, in a sick way. I just had to sneak in and say that. Tiptoe'n out now.~~

This 99 and his cotton field.

Hell yeah I have bullshitted women. Sometimes they don't believe anything BUT.

But I won't bullshit them about my emotional currency. They will always know up front that the gig is conditional and that they are living paycheck to paycheck..

Now you know, I am out here in my row.

And it ain't the front row either, huh?

Hiding out so massa can't see ya!

These fools put me on the front row. They know exactly what time I get here, and what time I leave, how many times I go to the John and who visits.

Well, I don't think that I have ever intentionally BS'd, and I am not really sure what it is to "fling woo". I basically try to be authentic in all my relationships. I will admit, however, that I am fairly obtuse with respect to romantic engagements. I have been cursed out once by a woman whose advances/interests I was oblivious to. Another time, I started laughing, when I figured out a woman was flirting with me.

I guess that goes with being a growing up a fundie Christian and a physics geek.

Ha...I think it is more the physics that the fundamentalism. I have known plenty of fundie mack daddies!

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Originally posted by THEBIGDODDY:
And it ain't the front row either, huh?

Hiding out so massa can't see ya!

These fools put me on the front row. They know exactly what time I get here, and what time I leave, how many times I go to the John and who visits.

Dang, they got you in the low cotton, don't they.

Well don't feel alone, the overseers now got eyes they ain't had five years ago.