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A1 |
Question:
Is there a sensitive, non ego bruising, way to have a talk with a black man about going to the doctor to be evaluated for erectile dysfunction and the possible need to take viagra? When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak Audre Lord |
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A1 |
Would a black man with that problem actually NEED to be told about it?!?
 Seriously, what brother, in that situation, would walk around like nothing is wrong??? If there's a guy who is having e.d. problems and they're NOT on his way to the doctor's office already, then "sensitive and non-ego bruising" is not the answer. ____________________________________________________ |
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Founder |
NS - you can get it online without a script. Why not get some for him?
 But to answer your question - is there a "non-ego bruising way" to bring it up? HELL NO!  |
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A1 |
 THAT TYPE OF HONESTY IS BELOW MY PAYGRADE. |
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A1 |
MBM, this is not a personal situation, but, one worth discussing since active romance is important even to brothas in their 50s 60s and 70s. I have sistafriends in their 40's and 50's who don't even sleep in the same bed anymore. are those online sources trustworthy? hypothetically speaking  When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak Audre Lord |
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A1 |
ok seriously
those brothas than can erm... achieve erection, but then go soft quickly you know, the ones that like to put their hands down there to make it go where it needs to go... do they have E.D.? or just need a lil porno? *cough* When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak Audre Lord |
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Founder |
OK - I thought we were friends. Sure we've disagreed here and there but for you to go there on me, DAMN negrospiritual!! Why?????? 
Sure - hypothetically speaking!  |
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A1 |
MBM,
My bad MBM, I edited it. I actually like dudes in their 40's. I'm not too far away from 40 and there's something all warm and toasty about em. yummy When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak Audre Lord |
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The Watcher |
 Does the brother have: A little exercise and proper diet can improve erectile function. Also consider the following: as herbal alternatives. ------------------------------ R.I.F. (Reading IS Fundamental)... "There are five dangerous faults which may affect a general: (1) Recklessness, which leads to destruction; (2) cowardice, which leads to capture; (3) a hasty temper, which can be provoked by insults; (4) a delicacy of honor which is sensitive to shame; (5) over-solicitude for his men, which exposes him to worry and trouble." -Sun Tzu |
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A2 |
couple shots of vodka does a great job for me
and if i really want to go strong, (GIN) |
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A4 |
Luckily Uncle Sam took care of that (needed or not) for many of us and saved many the embarrassment. We got back and during the physical most dr's were giving out meds by the hand fulls and viagra, cialis et. al. were prescribed "just because" as my dr put it. ____________________________________________________ Got no love for politicians Or that crazy scene in D.C. It's just a power mad town But the time is ripe for changes There's a growing feeling That taking a chance on a new kind of vision is due I used to trust the media To tell me the truth, tell us the truth But now I've seen the payoffs Everywhere I look Who do you trust when everyone's a crook? Revolution calling Revolution calling Revolution calling you (There's a) Revolution calling Revolution calling Gotta make a change Gotta push, gotta push it on through catch |
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A1 |
Wow! Ocatchings...
Did military medical establishment believe prolonged combat would have an effect on ability to maintain a satisfactory *ahem* sexual experience? When we speak we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak Audre Lord |
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A4 |
After all the shots, pills we had to take and verified, but "undocumented" encounters with chemical and other types of agents I would have to say somebody knows something. ____________________________________________________ Got no love for politicians Or that crazy scene in D.C. It's just a power mad town But the time is ripe for changes There's a growing feeling That taking a chance on a new kind of vision is due I used to trust the media To tell me the truth, tell us the truth But now I've seen the payoffs Everywhere I look Who do you trust when everyone's a crook? Revolution calling Revolution calling Revolution calling you (There's a) Revolution calling Revolution calling Gotta make a change Gotta push, gotta push it on through catch |
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A4 |
Should popping a pill give me a goood woody (with little to no health risk), should the time come when I can't get it up like I used to, I'm all for it.
It wouldn't hurt my ego, for this is a reality with many men removed from their sexual prime. ..Hell, I'll take one now, just to see how long I can hold oak. >>><<<<>>>><<<<>>>><< "Study the people who took you out of history. Then you'll understand -your history." "For your survival, draw on the intellectual heritage of the whole world, but always start with your own intellectual heitage". --Dr. John Henrik Clarke "Revenge knows few limits when the privileged and powerful are subjected to the kind of terror they regularly mete out to their victims." --Noam Chomsky "Sure there are a few good whites just as much as there are a few bad Blacks. However what we are concerned here with is group attitudes and group politics. The exception does not make a lie or the rule - it merely substantiates it." --Steve Biko |
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C4 |
The side-effects of that pill are far more dangerous than what it's supposed to cure!
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