The "Male G-Spot"
Understanding the Prostate Gland
Tamar Love

Yes, there is a magic pleasure button in a man's body that, if stimulated, will produce amazing orgasms. It's easy to find and fun to touch -- if your idea of fun is hearing your man howl with pleasure! However, unlike its female counterpart, the "male G-Spot," correctly known as the "prostate gland," serves an important biological function.

Prostate Anatomy & Function

The prostate is a small gland, about the size and shape of a quail's egg. Nestled in the man's pubic bone and surrounded by the pelvic muscles, the prostate gland will respond to pressure applied through the rectum. The main function of the prostate is reproduction. The testicles produce sperm, the "little guys" that fertilize eggs. The vas deferens carries this sperm to the prostate, where it mixes with fluid from the prostate and seminal vesicles. When you have an orgasm, you ejaculate this fluid, which is comprised of 5% sperm and 95% seminal/prostate fluid.

Prostate Problems

The prostate can play host to a few common problems: Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia (BPH) is characterized by a non-cancerous growth of the prostate, and Prostatitis is an inflammation of the prostate. Both conditions are relatively easy to treat. Prostate cancer, however, is far more serious: currently, it is the leading cancer diagnosed among men in the United States.

Although we know very little about what causes prostate cancer, the medical community has discovered much about how to diagnose it. The prostate produces a substance known as the Prostate Specific Antigen (PSA), a small amount of which continuously leaks into the bloodstream. High levels of PSA can be associated with prostate cancer. Doctors can easily test the level of PSA in your blood. However, some problems can only be diagnosed with a rectal exam, which is why you need a PSA blood test AND a rectal exam annually. While these exams are not foolproof, there is evidence that early detection can be helpful in preventing the spread of cancer.

Prostate Pleasures

Like any form of anal play, prostate stimulation isn't for everyone. Some people associate the anus with feelings of dirtiness or shame, while others just don't respond well to this form of stimulation. If you decide to try prostate manipulation, you need to respect your inhibitions.

Prostrate Remedy

Prostrate problems are caused by the swelling of the gland. This dis-eased state is caused by a dis-eased body. A cleansing diet of fruits could be beneficial. Additionally, herbs such as parsley, uva ursi, ginger, Juniper berry, gravel root, echinacea, red clover, yucca, goldenseal, Juniper oil capsules, Aminos such as Glutamic Acid, Alanine, Glycine and Histidine are used to treat this disease. Also, infections in this area are best remedied with cranberry juice (unsweetned), juniper berry oil, vitamin E, vinegar and water. Essentially, a wholistic natural foods diet coupled with a healthy mind and spirit are recommended for optimum results.

Brothas, after reading, (if you're courageous enough) please tell us what a woman can do to excite you the most, besides handling the prostrate gland (Men's G-Spot).

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Lol I knew this, but try getting a guy to agree to let you mess with his asshole...

One woman I knew just took the initiative. While he was busy concentrating on her fellatio skills, she wet her finger and before he could stop her, just shoved it right up his ass. Once it was in position, he was in heaven.

Rowe:

Thanks for the primer.

I always thought it was more than I wnated to know.

Now that the topic is here, is there any similar relationship in women?

PEACE

Jim Chester

I'm not sure if I understand your question, but I will say that I am NOT nor will I ever poke around a man's butt. I just thought this information was interesting. I didn't know that men had a G-Spot, actually; I just assumed that anywhere we touched them turned them on. I'll probably never get an answer to this question--at least not in the open forum--but have any of you had experiences with your G-Spot? I know, I know, I minus well be asking have any of you ever died before, because I know I will not get an answer to that one.

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I'm not sure I know how to answer that one James, but I will say that I am not nor will I ever poke around a man's butt. I just thought the information was interesting. I didn't know that men had a G-Spot, actually; I just assumed that anywhere we touched them turned them on. I'll probably never get an answer to this question--at least not in the open forum--but have any of you had experiences with your G-Spot?

I know, I know, I minus well be asking have any of you ever died before because I know I'm not getting an answer to that one.

The only experience that I have had "back there" was with my prostate exams,e.g. the bend The experience may have also been marred by my old doctor who seemed to enjoy performing the exam a little too much.

There are straight men who do make this a part of their sex play, but for most hetero's, that kind of penetration is associated with being gay.

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Originally posted by James Wesley Now that the topic is here, is there any similar relationship in women?

James if you want to know what is recognized as the woman's "G-spot," most people know that its the clitoris. At least, I hope you knew this already. It's the dangling piece of flesh inside the woman's vagina. I can't get more graphic than that. Any other information needed will have to be researched on your own.

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Originally posted by kresge:
There are straight men who do make this a part of their sex play, but for most hetero's, that kind of penetration is associated with being gay.

It is my understanding that handling a man's G-spot causes him to reach orgasm much sooner than he would on his own. If that is the case, then I definitely would want to steer clear of this area.

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Originally posted by Rowe:

James if you want to know what is recognized as the woman's "G-spot," most people know that its the clitoris.

Although the above diagram wouldn't be found in any legit Pelvic Anatomy medical text, it does illlustrate the point that the famous/mythical "G Spot" is a vaginal entity. But, as Rowe implies, the fastest way to an orgasm is via the clitoris. There is no doubt about that!

MBM:

Thanks for the diagram.

I think it is saying there is NOT a rectal parallel to the 'male G-spot' consttuction.

It's sometimes difficult when you are 'pokin' 'round' in the dark.

PEACE

Jim Chester

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I'm not sure if I understand your question, but I will say that I am NOT nor will I ever poke around a man's butt.

Why not? Especially now that you know what kind of response it would get.

You can stimulate the male g-spot without putting your finger (or anything else) in his behind, by pressing on the skin right below his scrotum (between the balls and the ass, as it were).

The easiest way to find the female G-Spot is to press down on the clitoris with one finger and slide the other finger a couple of inches inside the vagina and press it up against the vaginal wall (like the way you would motion with your finger for someone to come closer to you). It presses down on the G-Spot from both directions and should be highly pleasurable. As for intercourse, it depends on which way the man curves. If he curves upward, you're more likely to hit the spot if she is on top. If he curves downward, "doggy style" is better. I'm not exactly sure what one would do if the man curves to the left or right.

Frenchy, you and I are off the same mind, I was going to say exactly what you said, then I read you post. What I find most interesting is that some people's comments are quite provincial.

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Originally posted by Rowe:

It is my understanding that handling a man's G-spot causes him to reach orgasm much sooner than he would on his own. If that is the case, then I definitely would want to steer clear of this area.

I just had to repost this. This is one of the funniest posts I have ever read!!!

Posts like this make me want to get a "Do Not Enter" sign tattooed on my butt cheek!

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Originally posted by AudioGuy:


Posts like this make me want to get a "Do Not Enter" sign tattooed on my butt cheek!

You're missing out on a world of pleasure, AG.

Let some woman try to put her finger.....

I would....you wanna see me go off....

Aaahhh lets just say I better be damn good and drunk before that goes down.

Now I'm thinking that more of you guys would do it in private, but you are fulfilling your masculine duty by trying to convince us otherwise.

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
Now I'm thinking that more of you guys would do it in private, but you are fulfilling your masculine duty by trying to convince us otherwise.

Trust me, when I took my physical to join the Air Force, the doctor told me to bend over and spread, I told him, there is nothing up there that will preclude me from holding and firing a gun.

I feel its an "exit" only body part. lol

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Originally posted by xxGAMBITxx:

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
Now I'm thinking that more of you guys would do it in private, but you are fulfilling your masculine duty by trying to convince us otherwise.

Trust me, when I took my physical to join the Air Force, the doctor told me to bend over and spread, I told him, there is nothing up there that will preclude me from holding and firing a gun.

I feel its an "exit" only body part. lol

You guys have me laughing so hard....

(the visual)

Hehehehehheehhehehe