peace....

Okay what do you think about this...

One day this guy is walking down the street, all of a sudden a black van pulls up and the man is seized and hauled away to a secret location. Once he is there he is forced at gun point to enter a room where there is a beautiful woman he recognizes from a recent airplane flight. She is insanely beautiful and partially naked. She informs the man that he has been kidnapped to satisfy her sexual desire. He is happily married and rejects the woman's request, however, gunmen force him to undress and have sex with the woman...

She removes her remaining clothing and the man finds that his body response to the stimulus...Rifles poke at the back of his head and he is told to have sex or be killed. He thinks of his wife and children and goes about having sex with the woman...He climaxes...

The entire episode is video recorded, and a copy is mailed to his wife...He returns home and tries to explain to his wife why he had to do it..She says that she understands why he had to have sex, but she just can't understand how he could enjoy it so much...

She says that even though he was forced to have sex, he was not forced to climax and thus she feels that he cheated on her...

Is she correct???


Kai

What an imagination.

You have trouble sleeping at night, don't you?

This is the work of your imagination, riiight???

*skips out of Men's forum*

Wow.... I'd have to go with no... it was not by free will. The body was reacting to the excitement... Sounds kinky, minus the the guns...

Peace.....

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Originally posted by ma'am:
What an imagination.

You have trouble sleeping at night, don't you?

This is the work of your imagination, riiight???

*skips out of Men's forum*

I asked this question to shed light on the difference between men and women as it relates to sex. In the story the man is effectively raped, however, he cannot help but enjoy it...If this were a women abducted and forced to have sex with an attractive man at gunpoint no one would expect that she would climax as a result of the experience, and if she did, and her husband watched this on DVD, He would propbably want to kill her, and he would never accept that she did not want to have sex with this attractive man...She would more than likely be viewed as a whore by the husband.

Under the same circumstances I beleive that most natural men would behave in the way as described in the story.

Kai

Peace....

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Originally posted by MissTical:
Wow.... I'd have to go with no... it was not by free will. The body was reacting to the excitement... Sounds kinky, minus the the guns...

The body was reacting...Yep...That is a man being a man...



Kai

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Kai:
Peace.....

I asked this question to shed light on the difference between men and women as it relates to sex. In the story the man is effectively raped, however, he cannot help but enjoy it...If this were a women abducted and forced to have sex with an attractive man at gunpoint no one would expect that she would climax as a result of the experience, and if she did, and her husband watched this on DVD, He would propbably want to kill her, and he would never accept that she did not want to have sex with this attractive man...She would more than likely be viewed as a whore by the husband.

Under the same circumstances I beleive that most natural men would behave in the way as described in the story.



Kai,
Initially I would be concerned with the rape and dvd; not that he climaxed. Just because he's a man doesn't mean that he's not mentally suffering because of it, and he's probably stressing over my reaction of his violation as well. People in general don't like to feel vulnerable... not only was he but it was taped. Damn... not to contradict myself... maybe after it set in I'd question (myself) if he enjoyed it . That would truly be a hard pill to swallow... watching your spouse being violated... it wasn't his fault; It's not cheating. Naw... not cheating Sorry got a soft spot for victims.....

Peace....

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Kai,
Initially I would be concerned with the rape and dvd; not that he climaxed. Just because he's a man doesn't mean that he's not mentally suffering because of it, and he's probably stressing over my reaction of his violation as well. People in general don't like to feel vulnerable... not only was he but it was taped. Damn... not to contradict myself... maybe after it set in I'd question (myself) if he enjoyed it . That would truly be a hard pill to swallow... watching your spouse being violated... it wasn't his fault; It's not cheating. Naw... not cheating Sorry got a soft spot for victims.....

MissTical, you seem to be a very compassionate person.

I think that after the fact, this scenario would be very difficult for a faithful husband to deal with within his own heart and mind. There is alot of struggle within the story. I personally believe that men are designed with a drive to implant himself in every beautiful thing he comes into contact with. I think that growth, wisdom, decency, love, and respect for life supresses the desire to act every time we find ourselves stimulated. The man in the story would probably feel very ashamed after the fact, however,I would probably explain to this person that His body was designed to react the way that it did...But this is only good (in my mind) as an excuse for a male. I do not think that the female is hardwired in the same fashion, I truly believe that a woman's mind must be involved in order for her to reach a sexual climax...

Would you excuse a woman for the same reason that you would excuse the man?


Kai

Yes I would.... I think for every situation in order to truly evaluate it you have to try to put yourself in that person's shoes. As a woman I would have to excuse it and if the tables were turned my man would have to know that even though I was not mentally connected to that person I believe that a woman could climax in that situation as well. Not to get too personal about myself but if there's contact I'd climax... not that I'd enjoy it but it would be my body reacting, nerves and everything else going on. It wouldn't make the woman a whore... it's the same scenario... difficult situation! You can't excuse one and not excuse the other...

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Originally posted by ma'am:
What an imagination.

You have trouble sleeping at night, don't you?

This is the work of your imagination, riiight???

*skips out of Men's forum*

This is a first... I didn't think it was possible to scare away ma'am...