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Originally posted by EbonyRose:
That's a very interesting perspective, Vox. I can definitely see that being the case.

I also believe that it wasn't a *secret* to either one of these women that their soon-to-be husbands had a little sugar in their boots. Remember, Star's husband was photographed in a gay bar on Halloween with a cape and a G-string, flashing folks and calling himself "Bam-Bam"!!

But, I think one thing both of these relationships had in common was that both of these men more or less swept these women off of their feet with love and charm and made them feel very, very special!! That's a hook-line-and-sinker way for a man (gay or otherwise) to reel in a woman (especially one with a lot of money) ... and a lot of women will overlook crazy, outlandish things to have a man giving her that kind of love in her life.

And of course, there's always the "I can change him" (flawed) way of thinking .. that never works, but doesn't stop us from trying!