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Originally posted by Rowe:

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:
Isn't it amazing how all three of the most hypocritical females on africanamerica.org, Rowe, Kalikquwa, and Oshun, are all getting attacked at the same time?

And isn't it amazing how often we stay on your mind? Are you in love with us or something? And if you want to call me out on being a "hypocrite" on something, then I'm afraid the interracial dating discussion can't be it. During both those exhaustive discussions, I stressed and emphasized again and again my different viewpoints about Black men dating outside their race and Black women dating outside their race. Were you paying attention?

Check it out:

Extracted from the thread titled, Another Interracial Dating Question by Urbansun

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Originally posted by Rowe:

Let me make something very clear to those participating in this discussion and others relating to this topic (this is exactly why I usually avoid discussions about interracial dating; it's like talking about religion): I am NOT promoting White hate, Black power, or any other extremist ideology. I have said several times that in a society as diverse as America, interracial relationships are inevitable. And I have even suggested that, because of Black womens' unique situation (that is, not having enough compatible mates to go around), Black women seek relationships outside of their cultural communities, though I don't believe that this is an ideal choice. Now, everyone is entitled to their opinion and that is mine.

Before stating this, I said:

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Originally posted by Rowe:

What men so conveniently forget (or don't realize because they don't live the lives of BLACK WOMEN), is that among all the women in this country, Black women are considered the least desirable. And the following statements explain why:

From the moment we are able to understand what is happening in our surroundings, and even before then, we are influenced by the cultures and societies in which we are born. In America, television advertisements, magazine ads, and other forms of media are very effective tools for reinforcing White cultural captial (e.g., customs, traditions, beliefs, and values), White superiority, and the adulation of White skin and other features that are unique to Europeans. And everyone is affected, even those in the international community are affected.

As African Americans, however, we have experienced the most brutal forms of this brand of assimiliation and mass influence. Over a period of 600 years, we were PERSONALLY instructed to love everything that is White and hate everything that is African and Black. The Black male, in particular, was instrcucted to never express any affection or have any kind of relationship whatsoever with the White female. Therefore - and this is just my personal theory - I believe of all the men in this country, the African American male is most likely to pursue interracial relationships, because of his personal relationship with America's history.

I also believe - and this is a very common theory - that Black men will subconsciously pursue relationships with non-Black women in order to get the admiration and respect that they don't get from the White male. To be seen with the White man's most prized possession (a White woman, preferrably the White woman with the lightest skin, the bluest eyes, and the blondest hair) is a way to instantly gain respect and to perhaps get "pay back" for his continuing oppression

Instead of doing the "research", as I have been advised to do by another poster, as usual, you've joined the discussion only to whine for attention and for personal validation, because it's obvious that you feel slighted. Because everyone seems to be rallying in support for this poster and her choice to date outside her race, and didn't rally behind you and your choice months prior, you're in here showing your ass out and wilding out to avenge your hurt feelings and bruised ego. Poor baby. Is the baby finished? Has the baby avenged his feelings by insulting everyone that he can think of insulting? Does baby Rhomie need a baby Rhomie bib for all that foaming at the mouth and snot running down his widdle nose? We're sick of it. Babies need to stay in their cribs where they belong.

MEN discuss their disagreements and opposing viewpoints. BABIES insult, personally attack, and act stupid. You're a baby, not a man. And what's sad is that everyone who is member of this forum knows the difference except you.

First of all, check this out, and I was DESPARATELY trying to ignore responding to your foolishness, because I know responding to one example of foolishness only leads to you acting more foolish, but there is a WORLD of difference between your character and the poster SistahSouljah's character. From the onset, the sister came out from the jump and admitted to having a change of heart about interracial dating. You didn't. In both of those discussions about interracial dating, you basically cussed everyone out (as usual) and told us if we didn't like what you were doing, then "fuck us", etc. She didn't. She's asking the forum about OUR opinion and OUR thoughts and insights about her change in interest. YOU DIDN'T and YOU DON'T. You come in here, ready to "tell people off" as if your opinion is so important that no matter what you say or how you say it, we just need to appreciate it and listen.

What's more, you're rude, disrespectful, ignorant, foul-mouthed, stupid-acting, ghetto, and obnoxious. And I don't give a damn WHAT you discuss, or WHAT the topic might be - If you're approaching people with this kind of behavior and this kind of foolishness, then they will disagree and oppose you no matter what. No one (not even you) would want to talk to someone who curses them out, who is tempermental, obnoxious, disrespectful, and crazy. And you're obviously a total wack job.

And stop writing my name in all your discussions. I don't want to have anything to do with you. I don't even talk to you on the board anymore. So why are you singling me out, among ALL the posters who criticized you during those discussions? I remember those discussions vividly. I remember that you were in constant, CONSTANT arguments with more than a few people during those discussions, most of which had NOTHING at all to do with your dating choices, but the way you were interacting and talking to people.

And finally, you need to stop grouping my name with Khalliqa's and Oshun's. Though I respect them as members of AA.org and their views as I do others, we are different people with drastically different viewpoints on a myriad of topics. So please stop listing my name. Please address members as individuals. Thank you.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:

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Originally posted by rowe:
And isn't it amazing how often we stay on your mind? Are you in love with us or something?

You can kill that reverse child psychology bullshit with the quickness. I stay on every nigga's mind on africanamerica.org. You can look in the post history of vox, black viking, you(rowe), kalikqwa, negrospiritual, kweli4real, oshun, audioguy, fagunwa, fabulous, ricardomath, nmaginate, kocoliscious, and afro-saxon and you can see where they put my name in their mouths thousands of times. When it gets to a point where newcomers like Ohblackbutterfly, LadyJ, and Charismallover wonder what the fuck is wrong with y'all asses for screaming my name all the time that should let you know other people see the foolishness too.


And you ain't going to turn this into a 'This is why Rowe is justified in her condescending actions, which is why she is so innocent' thread. You and every other sedimentary, territorial, rigid, condescending, pompous, indifferent negro that's been a member on this discussion board for 30+ years has used the same tired ass psuedo-scholarly, psuedo-diplomatic approach to harrass and insult people time and time again and you think because you don't use profanity that it must be okay. I wouldn't stoop to such pretentious, stuck up, snobbish levels as hiding behind the English language to insult someone, particularly, when the person you are insulting has the capacity to be just as astute if not more astute than you.

It's you, rowe, and inconsiderate, prudish people like you that have developed a biased, classist, elitist culture on this discussion board but those days are coming to a close as new members are ushering in a new era of pluralism by accepting people for who they are and respecting their beliefs instead of attacking and brow-beating people to death because they don't think and act like you.

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Wow Rowe...

not sure if I've ever seen that much fire in your post...

Well stated...

just giving credit where it is due...

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Originally posted by rowe the hypocrite:
MEN discuss their disagreements and opposing viewpoints. BABIES insult, personally attack, and act stupid.

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Originally posted by rowe the liar:
A nosy-ass hen needs to stay in her coop.

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Originally posted by rowe the snob:
....Personally, I'm very disappointed in this forum. I'm sad to say that since we've gotten our last batch of new members, the forum hasn't been as fun as it used to be. It used to be fun to come here.

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Originally posted by rowe the prude:
I'm sad to say that since we've gotten our last batch of new members, the forum hasn't been as fun as it used to be.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:

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Wow Rowe...

not sure if I've ever seen that much fire in your post...

Well stated...

just giving credit where it is due...

Shut the fuck up, coward!

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:
You may decide the heat is too much for you and drop your 'Mexican".

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:

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Originally posted by rowe:
And isn't it amazing how often we stay on your mind? Are you in love with us or something?

You can kill that reverse child psychology bullshit with the quickness. I stay on every nigga's mind on africanamerica.org. You can look in the post history of vox, black viking, you(rowe), kalikqwa, negrospiritual, kweli4real, oshun, audioguy, fagunwa, fabulous, ricardomath, nmaginate, kocoliscious, and afro-saxon and you can see where they put my name in their mouths thousands of times. When it gets to a point where newcomers like Ohblackbutterfly, LadyJ, and Charismallover wonder what the fuck is wrong with y'all asses for screaming my name all the time that should let you know other people see the foolishness too.


And you ain't going to turn this into a 'This is why Rowe is justified in her condescending actions, which is why she is so innocent' thread. You and every other sedimentary, territorial, rigid, condescending, pompous, indifferent negro that's been a member on this discussion board for 30+ years has used the same tired ass psuedo-scholarly, psuedo-diplomatic approach to harrass and insult people time and time again and you think because you don't use profanity that it must be okay. I wouldn't stoop to such pretentious, stuck up, snobbish levels as hiding behind the English language to insult someone, particularly, when the person you are insulting has the capacity to be just as astute if not more astute than you.

It's you, rowe, and inconsiderate, prudish people like you that have developed a biased, classist, elitist culture on this discussion board but those days are coming to a close as new members are ushering in a new era of pluralism by accepting people for who they are and respecting their beliefs instead of attacking and brow-beating people to death because they don't think and act like you.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:
See, people keep dropping that same sorry ass unaccountable comment: "Right and wrong is relative/subjective". You know good and got damn well what is "right" and what is "wrong" I don't give a damn how philosophical you want to analyze the behavior in question.

If you're a hypocrite, then you're a damn hypocrite. There is no degree of hypocrisy that is acceptable.

If you contradict yourself, then you're contradictory. There is no degree of contradiction that is acceptable.

If you're a racist bigot, then you're a damn racist, bigot. It doesn't matter if you're some cracker looking down on black people or some separatist negro using slavery and oppression as an exuse.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:
Look, sistahsouljah. You asked for everyone's opinions and you got it. And on top of that you posted a pic up to add fuel to the fire.

(Duh, that was all apart of the thread)

Trying to pick and choose who's opinions you agree with or disagree with is just as childish and pointless as you creating this thread to begin with.

What kills me is you've comitted what is considered to be a cardinal sin amongst your own sisteren, not to mention some of these dudes on this board, yet somehow you think you should be spared of any and all criticism

(Never said that. I'm not an idiot. Of course people are going to criticize. Like I said, I was just surprised at the hate.)

when countless others have been ridiculed about the same issue. To add insult to injury it was the hypocritical way in which you decided to jump into the interracial arena.

(How in the hell is it hypocritical to jump into the IR "arena"?? Wtf, was I supposed to buy a ticket first before I could participate?)

I don't give a damn what you do with your life. In fact I'm an advocate of interracial relationships. But don't think you can jump in and not get any negative criticism,

(Never did think that)

particularly, considering the way in which you jumped in. I ain't got no sympathy for you nor do I have any "constructive criticism" for you because you could be just another phony faking the funk. You may decide the heat is too much for you and drop your 'Mexican".

(Trust, your influence is not almighty )

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Originally posted by sistahsouljah:
How in the hell is it hypocritical to jump into the IR "arena"??

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I used to be exclusively into Black men, Black everything, and basically screw all other races...

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I consider myself to have become more open minded.

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
This does not have to be this difficult.

I used to only like Black men. Now I like everybody. I still like being Black too. It's not complicated.

ANYWAY we broke up over some serious reasons but they won't be posted here. PM or email me if you're curious.

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
This does not have to be this difficult.

I used to only like Black men. Now I like everybody. I still like being Black too. It's not complicated.

ANYWAY we broke up over some serious reasons but they won't be posted here. PM or email me if you're curious.

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Originally posted by Ohblackbutterfly:

You were a significant part of ANOTHER thead on the black woman's hair (started by LadyJ, "Hair Snob")...and yet you've deleted nearly all of your posts from that thread. However you can STILL be quoted because of OTHER posters quoting YOU in their own posts ), that's two.

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Originally posted by Fabulous:
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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett: *snip* I stay on every nigga's mind on africanamerica.org. You can look in the post history of vox, black viking, you(rowe), kalikqwa, negrospiritual, kweli4real, oshun, audioguy, fagunwa, fabulous, ricardomath, nmaginate, kocoliscious, and afro-saxon and you can see where they put my name in their mouths thousands of times.

Yes, DO look in my posts. . .

And what you'll find is. . .

I RARELY use your name in my posts (let alone THOUSANDS of times...stop dreamin'!), unless, of course, I'm posting to you directly.

In fact, I can count on ONE HAND the number of times I've mentioned yout name in a post (again, unless I am posting to you directly)

You gettin' your people mixed up.

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Originally posted by THEBIGDODDY:

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Originally posted by Romulus Burnett:

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
This does not have to be this difficult.

I used to only like Black men. Now I like everybody. I still like being Black too. It's not complicated.

ANYWAY we broke up over some serious reasons but they won't be posted here. PM or email me if you're curious.

Like said..a HOT TAMALE!

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Originally posted by SistahSouljah:
This does not have to be this difficult.

I used to only like Black men. Now I like everybody. I still like being Black too. It's not complicated.

ANYWAY we broke up over some serious reasons but they won't be posted here. PM or email me if you're curious.

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